Originally Posted By: codeman

Before I got out of the Navy, in 1989 she married a guy and they moved to Minnesota. I married 1993 and then divorced in 2007. While I was going through it and connecting with friends on Myspace my old girlfriend connected with me online and we started talking. Seems like she was going through a divorce at the same time.

Curious what ended both of these marriages. Can you provide some more background?

Originally Posted By: codeman
She tells our D30 that she loves OM and no longer sees me that way.

Also, if my math is right, this would put this child as born in 1987. So is this daughter both of yours? If so, what was the custody agreements while you were each married to someone else?

Originally Posted By: codeman
Should I continue to be her "friend" and "Hang out" with her or should I go NC.

I told her I can't be her friend but I will help her if she needs help.

You told her you dont want to be her friend. Did you mean it, or was it a ploy to try to get her to 'choose' you? Honestly, I think going NC is for the best.


Originally Posted By: codeman
Now she is mad and saying to never contact her

Especially since she is asking for that...


So what are you doing to GAL?