Im struggling with the urge to say something like "i'm not gonna shake the hand of the guy who did my wife the last 6 months of her marriage and led to breaking my kids hearts".
I can relate. However, there should be no anger toward him. He didn't force her. Conscious decision.
With that said, I told the OM that he could have my ex. Cheaters are the lowest form. However, I also told him that if he ever came near my kids that I'd break his legs. He got the drift loud and clear.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
