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Im struggling with the urge to say something like "i'm not gonna shake the hand of the guy who did my wife the last 6 months of her marriage and led to breaking my kids hearts".

I see that goes against all advice though so better keep my mouth shut..


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Originally Posted By: doodler
Yikes!


Yeah I know. But then again, I have no hard evidence that they had an EA (or PA for that matter). Its just my best guess based on circumstances..

Honestly I think XW had no idea what hit her before it was too late. Him, on the other hand, being almost 60, hes been around, he knew what was going on. (if were assuming EA)


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Originally Posted By: Btrow
Im struggling with the urge to say something like "i'm not gonna shake the hand of the guy who did my wife the last 6 months of her marriage and led to breaking my kids hearts".

I see that goes against all advice though so better keep my mouth shut..


I don't think there's anything wrong with calling him out, but that's just my opinion.

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Im struggling with the urge to say something like "i'm not gonna shake the hand of the guy who did my wife the last 6 months of her marriage and led to breaking my kids hearts".


I can relate. However, there should be no anger toward him. He didn't force her. Conscious decision.

With that said, I told the OM that he could have my ex. Cheaters are the lowest form. However, I also told him that if he ever came near my kids that I'd break his legs. He got the drift loud and clear.


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Originally Posted By: Jeep74
I can relate. However, there should be no anger toward him. He didn't force her. Conscious decision.


Jeep,

I try to take the high road but then my Tourette's Syndrome kicks in...

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Doodler... is that self-inflicted, manual Tourette's Syndrome?


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Originally Posted By: Tryin2figuritout
Doodler... is that self-inflicted, manual Tourette's Syndrome?


Tryin,

Yeah, I guess. But it's not my fault.

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Bahaha.


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Originally Posted By: doodler


Yeah, I guess. But it's not my fault.



Just read your sitch Doodler. You're a funny guy. Good thing you didn't do a 180 on that part of you smile


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