Im struggling with the urge to say something like "i'm not gonna shake the hand of the guy who did my wife the last 6 months of her marriage and led to breaking my kids hearts".
I see that goes against all advice though so better keep my mouth shut..
M:46 WXW:40 T:20 M:13 D3,D8,D10 BD:11/12/16 D:12/14/16 OM confirmed 01/20/17