Hope is a prison. It locks you down and has you doing things for an alternative purpose. This ends up causing them to seem fake to your W because ultimately you're doing them to save the M and not for you.
Focus on you, your daughter and making that relationship most important right now. Do something fun for yourself. Try to distract yourself from your sitch. I know this is difficult to do, but it helps tremendously.
Nobody knows what your W will do except her and sounds like she probably doesn't even know. You can't worry about it because you have no control. The sooner you focus on this the better you will become.
Wish you luck, EastTN.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17