So now i have been served papers. I get 20 days to respond in writing and or counter file. Im torn if i should be amicable, or selfish. Drag it out, or rush it. Custody is the big thing, we have an unsustainable 50/50 arrangement. Id definatly prefer to have nearly all custody. Currently my wife does not want child support.
BH:30 WW:30 T:12 M:5 D7 S4 BD 7-28-16 S 8-28-16 3-15-17 wife filed 3-17-17 OM joint files with his wife
Just an update. I am throwing my daughter her first birthday at the skating rink. Trying to superdad this terrible situation. But lately ive been feeling pretty low. Ive lost my zest to keep going, keep fighting. I dont know how some people find it so easy to let go, including my wife. As of right now I have to attend a coparent class in May, and then have my financial disclosure turned in at the end of May.
BH:30 WW:30 T:12 M:5 D7 S4 BD 7-28-16 S 8-28-16 3-15-17 wife filed 3-17-17 OM joint files with his wife
But lately ive been feeling pretty low. Ive lost my zest to keep going, keep fighting.
jade,
I'm sorry you're not feeling good. What worked for me was GAL (home improvement projects). I worked on my house and lawn seven days a week (and I'm still doing that). If I didn't feel like working on the house, then I went ahead and did it anyway. As soon as I'd get started doing my thing, I'd feel better. I tried to make sure I went to bed exhausted every day - I generally slept well.
Even when you don't feel like it, try to push yourself out the door. Go for a run or plant some flowers - do whatever floats your boat; just get out and move around.
