The fact that they are used as pawns really, really gets me. They shouldn't be told things like that. Maybe I can get you to throat punch the family. Haha
I totally understand. That is one thing that my ex and I agreed on when we first got married.....that we would not participate in anything that was harmful to our girls. Our kids were older than yours, but their mother was the master manipulator/pawn player and we just refused to play. Probably much easier in our situation because the girls were older and their mom was really too busy chasing her married boyfriend all over the country to really worry much about the girls, but oh when she was sneaky and devious, she was VERY sneaky and devious. It was rough. I can't even imagine how hard it would've been if the girls had been younger.
Having rambled all that out there that you really didn't ask about nor really care about, I will gladly throat punch whoever needs it for you. They deserve it. Just point me in the right direction...it could be awkward if I throat punch the wrong person.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids