There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Hang in there, my friend. I think anger is natural, especially when you are dealing with the alienation issues. Keep doing right by those kids and it will all be golden.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Hang in there, my friend. I think anger is natural, especially when you are dealing with the alienation issues. Keep doing right by those kids and it will all be golden.
Thank you, Dawn!
The fact that they are used as pawns really, really gets me. They shouldn't be told things like that. Maybe I can get you to throat punch the family. Haha
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
The fact that they are used as pawns really, really gets me. They shouldn't be told things like that. Maybe I can get you to throat punch the family. Haha
I totally understand. That is one thing that my ex and I agreed on when we first got married.....that we would not participate in anything that was harmful to our girls. Our kids were older than yours, but their mother was the master manipulator/pawn player and we just refused to play. Probably much easier in our situation because the girls were older and their mom was really too busy chasing her married boyfriend all over the country to really worry much about the girls, but oh when she was sneaky and devious, she was VERY sneaky and devious. It was rough. I can't even imagine how hard it would've been if the girls had been younger.
Having rambled all that out there that you really didn't ask about nor really care about, I will gladly throat punch whoever needs it for you. They deserve it. Just point me in the right direction...it could be awkward if I throat punch the wrong person.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Of course...there is a little place down in FL that you could go and take care of business.
Almost a month into it and still doing great. However, it would be even better if she'd just be a grownup about it and stop the 'tude. Oh well.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Of course...there is a little place down in FL that you could go and take care of business.
I'm always up for a good road trip and it's been a long time since I have been to FL.
Glad things are still going well. For me, it's been over 2 years and I'm STILL waiting for my XH to be a grown-up about the whole thing. We don't have any contact anymore since he's moved off to marry his tart, but on the very rare occasions we do have to deal, he wants to act like he was so hurt by the whole thing (HIS CHOICE) and will say things like he misses me and crap like that which makes me just want to throat punch him. So, I guess what I'm saying is, I have a lot of throat punching to do. LOL
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
LOL Doodler....apparently it has. Who knew that I could be involved in something gone viral? Is this like Fight Club though, where the first rule is that we shouldn't talk about Fight Club?
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Is this like Fight Club though, where the first rule is that we shouldn't talk about Fight Club?
Dawn,
I think it's more like "World War Z." After the throat punch you say, "My bad, I thought you were a zombie." I think that's a legitimate legal defense as well.
I think it's more like "World War Z." After the throat punch you say, "My bad, I thought you were a zombie." I think that's a legitimate legal defense as well.
I'm not familiar with that movie, Doodler. I guess I will have to check it out now. I might need to do some research. LOL I have watched "The Walking Dead" though.........;)
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
