Friends, I was just browsing through some of our pictures from nine months ago. It's strange how happy we look, in fact, how happy my W looks. I can't believe all this while she was actually planning her exit strategy. When I look at some of her more recent pictures it feels like I'm seeing another person altogether. I can't seem to recognise her. Any of you folks went through this?
I've started piecing together the last year - events, signs, words - to make more sense of the my sitch. It slowly feels like she fell out of love with me a while ago. Wonder if any of you went through the same process...
Going down that road will bring nothing but pain. Sorry to say, but it is what it is. There isn't any thing we can, or even should, do. Its their road and we must remember that. Sure, reminiscing is great - if, and that's IF, you can do it without pain. But as of now, you aren't ready for that. Put away the pictures, mementos, etc., and focus on yourself. Nothing else you can do.
Our spouses are on their own road, and that road doesn't include us. We must tend to our own and make sure our life is what WE want for us - no one else.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
