Originally Posted By: sandi2 Since she is not feeling the way she use to feel about you, it scares her into doubting those feelings will ever return. It just takes time to heal. If we could see the emotional damage the way we can see a physical part of our body destroyed..........maybe we could see how the healing was progressing. Even if she is being honest with you, her feelings cannot "snap" back.
My advice for you at this point, is not the same that I would tell a H who had a W that refused to work on the M. Just want to clarify this for anyone reading this thread.
Sandi - Curious what the difference would be for a H who had a W that refused to work on the M in the above example? I know this is a gigantic issue for my W that she has to deal with (doubt that feelings would ever return). How should I approach?
Well thank you for asking. Actually, I talked about that subject in more detail in my threads about the mindset of the WW. The first one is posted on Cadet's welcome post.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
