Those words my separated wife says to me all the time too. Be careful, my SW is living in our house (I"m staying at a friends to give her space) and she is constantly talking to and seeing OM. Those words to me mean "I can't make it on my own yet" Good luck
I have to agree with this. It really stinks when you're the safety net, you KNOW you're the safety net, and the other party acts like you don't know what you're talking about.
I've also discovered "I can't do or say anything right" is code for "I'm going to blame you because my lie didn't work."
