Originally Posted By: resolut
Originally Posted By: Thornton

Absolutely anything can happen in these situations. I've been completely down and out and trying to accept that my W wasn't coming back but she did, twice!


Yes I honestly do believe that but she is far, far away now. On Sunday it was as if I had committed war crimes for the past 25 years of our marriage. She claimed she was never in love with me once. I wouldn't wish that conversation on my worst enemy. I did my very best to sit there and listen and not plead or argue or break down.

I had to remind myself over and over that its not really her talking. She is so engrossed in this affair and the fog that nothing is normal to her. It is like my 46yo wife has regressed into being an adolescent and showing many traits of an addict.


Sounds familiar to me.


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process