I know of one friend (a younger girl who works for her) that is more about being a "fun friend" than encouraging an A, or pulling her away from me. She only sees the stress in my W life and tries to help relieve that (she doesn't know my W caused her own stress).
LW - My W has one of these too and I'm glad she does to try and eliminate some of the stress. Only concern is too much "grass is greener" thoughts here.
Originally Posted By: LW2381
I keep going back to what you said early on in my posts about her being so lost and never feeling like she can be in love with me again. I just struggle to make sure that I be the best I can be for me and my S, but also to let her know that I will fight for US.
It seems like your W knows that you will fight. She knows through your actions, your commitment to counseling, etc. Keep the focus on you and your S.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
