A personal anecdote: my H filed for D and things went all the way to the judges final signing before H pulled the case and asked to reconcile. One of the things he told me after the fact was how much my support of him had meant rather than my trying to force him to stop the D.
Don't give up hope. Sometimes even the worst of situations can turn around. Lead with your love rather than your fear.
Anna - Always nice to hear stories like yours. My W and I actually filed 4 years ago only to pull D off the table about 2 weeks into the waiting period. She asked me what would we have done had it gone through and I told her it's just a piece of paper. She had a look of amazement in her eyes.
Too bad we slipped and I don't know where we'll go this time, but always encouraging to hear these stories.
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Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
