I've heard this book mentioned by a lot of folks here, so I decided to check it out. (Note: This ain't a plug and I didn't buy the book...and I have bought both DR and SSM.)
As I read it, the basic premise is that everyone has a love tank that gets filled by one of the following: Gifts, Words of Affirmation, Quality of Time, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch
I would say that my primary LL is Words of Affirmation followed by Physical Touch. The other things are not things I need to feel loved.
But when it comes to my WAW...I have always gotten the feeling that she wants all 5, depending on her mood. If I was doing one of them, then she was angry that I wasn't doing another one of them.
For those who've read the entire book, and spent some time thinking about, what thoughts do you have for me?
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu