WOW CADENCE, I don't think your posts have been showing up because I have looked for you since our last conversation and have been wondering how things were going. I'm SO glad to see you on here. (Maybe I've just missed it. My mind hasn't been exactly right lately. LOL)
So many thoughts running through my head. Did you go to the concert solo? How was it? Did you find anyone to talk to? Did stupid show up? Tell me about the shoebox apartment. Did your plants make it over? I already love your mom. I can picture her, trying to help you move, and help you in relationship games with stupid. (You don't mind if I call him that for now, do you?) Or I could go with April Fool #1. LOL.
I think (from what I read into your posts) that you have held your head high, handled this with grace and dignity, and been very wise in the practical aspects of this situation-ie protecting your own interests, looking out for yourself, b/c ultimately that's what we all should be doing, in or out of a relationship. A lesson I've learned the hard way.
I feel you girl, about the stupid songs, laying your head on his chest, watching movies, etc. See my earlier ramblings about the Tim/Faith concert and songs. You snuggle in to that shoebox, watch some good Netflix (Reign is really good, and there are many lovely, dignified ladies on the show- and NOT ONE OF THEM IS HOLDING ONTO THE BUMPER OF A CARRIAGE AS IT DRIVES AWAY.) I hope that made you laugh.
Hang in there, girl. We got this.


M-60 H-51
M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton