Script mode is hard. I had to level off as it was confusing the W at first. I think I went panic into action mode that it was too much too soon.
We're all afraid of pushing the wrong buttons while things are fragile. I know I've been positive, been restrained (scripting), but still struggling in my way to balance detachment/GAL and being there for her, but not you know???
It's such a delicate balance and painful. In my sitch, I really only think we've got to get further apart before any mending can happen. The W has apparently been really good at collecting water under the bridge.
Keep up the confidence because it sounds like you've got her attention. Baby steps.
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Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
