I appreciate the input, I have definitely noticed she is "poking her head out" and I will absolutely try to not spook her while also maintaining my confidence. That is what got her to notice in the first place, but then I feel like I went into "script mode".
Thanks-
Me-35, W-31 T: 12 M: 11 S5 BD: 11/2016, Wants Divorce Divorce off table 1/17 EA (11/2016)/PA (3/17)confirmed Status Unknown as of 3/29/17