Agree with Matrix here. Sounds like you're in a good spot. Doesn't make the next steps any easier, but it is some firm footing.

Keep it up LW.

Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17