Quick question: Been separated for 3 months, divorce is starting this week (will take at least 6 months), she is dating OM. I am in process of detaching. However, wedding anniversary is in 10 days. Do I acknowledge it, ignore it, send a card, flowers, note (last effort). I want the marriage to work (but have been giving the impression that I moving on), with detaching. What to do on anniversary day?


First thread
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2730962#Post2730962

Last edited by Cadet; 04/03/17 10:25 AM. Reason: Link

Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17