Adinva, I am at a similar stage to you, and I get that there are no winners in D, and everyone feels like they are getting $crewed. I think that is one of the harder things to reconcile, because if you are like me (and admittedly I don't know the exact details of your sitch), then you never asked for any of this and you have to cede control completely. I am waiting to hear back from the judge what the final settlement will be, but it does not look good. I suppose with this - and everything in life, indeed - we need to let go and let G-d. Nothing is truly in our control anyway. Regardless of what is thrown our way, we need to press forward. I am glad that you feel good about it and that you have attained a measure of closure. I am still waiting. :\
