Journey to the D

[Tofbrks]

Have a bday coming up for my d8... think the stbxw is planning a together party or at least the bday is not split like other "holidays".. I don't yet feel comfortable with that and om showing is a possibility... and I'm assuming that is what would happen. Should I let it go ?

And the stbxw wants to come over and clean out d8 closet.. not comfortable with her being in my house.. we have an agreement and all has been split.. so she has no legal right to be in home.

On both these issues I worry about appearing petty and bitter , feelings I don't believe I have ... just not there on the comfort level to have her "back around"
Chime in please with and 2cents you can offer ...