Had a great detachment item yesterday. The W was going to have dinner with her female co-worker who seems to be her greatest source of comfort these days. I was on my phone reading a self-help book (man, am I becoming addicted) and wanted to tell me something before she left.
I walked over, while still reading my book, and I could see she was upset. She said that she saw I had two coffee cups out for the morning, but she was spending the night at her friends house. I curtly said, "Oh, ok. Have fun." and walked off engrossed in my book.
What was great about this was I really felt detached when saying it. Yes, I purposefully said it curtly, but it felt very easy and relieving doing so.
After she left taking my D13 to a birthday party, I took my S10 to meet up with my Sister-In-Law, her kids and boyfriend for dinner / movie. Had a blast with my son and really enjoyed the night.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
