tim47:

I have 3 children, 8 12 and 14. What is best for them is to have 2 lovinf parents in the home. Unfortunately, being married to a ND women pretty much means I have NOTHING of any value in my marriage currently. So for ME to have happiness, I must ruin their lives by breaking up the family. This is not an option for me, YET!!! It gets closer and closer everyday though.