For me, getting to the point of not putting all your bets on her coming back (i.e. "not caring"), is where I first found some real peace. When you start to see that you are a good guy and deserve better from her or someone new, that is where I felt like my power really grew. I have also found that that "peace/power" ebbs and flows, so when it is down, keep your chin up, and when it is up, use it.
Keep on fighting, for you and your kids.
Me-35, W-31 T: 12 M: 11 S5 BD: 11/2016, Wants Divorce Divorce off table 1/17 EA (11/2016)/PA (3/17)confirmed Status Unknown as of 3/29/17
