1) LD woman actually CAUSE their HD husbands to become less desirable to them. How, because the HD husband starts doing things in a way that makes it seem like he is begging for sex. He is not confident, which is what the woman wants.
Can somebody that has a firm understanding of his book kind of explain it to me?
CeMar,
I have not read the book in question, but I do have a comment on the first point. As the LD in our R, I totally agree with the POV that a whiny, begging, crabby H is not an attractive H. I've told H that I find him more attractive and desireable when he is being assertive but I think it went in one ear and out the other. He still thinks that whining and bitching about the lack of sex in our R is going to just make me fall into bed with him...
