thanks for the note....one thing I want to mention is that my W does not want to give up the OM...she wants to be with him because he makes her very happy.
Of course he makes her happy. It is because he is filling a void that has been in her life for a long time. It isn't realistically sustainable.
The changes you are making are for YOU. When your changes are consistent and genuine over the course of time, they become believable. Simultaneously taking the pursuing and pressure off your W. She might eventually become curious. Be the best G possible.
Originally Posted By: AllHope
she has said she has cut of all contact...but she still wants to be with him over me.
I'd suggest to be cautious in believing anything she says or does. She most likely doesn't feel obligated to being honest with you.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
