WW with affair moved out 4+ weeks ago

[15Stang]

Hi all,
Just journaling a bit....
It's crazy to think what can happen in a year....
A year ago I was on a plane to a southern state to purchase a new car for my W and I. When my wife dropped me off at the airport I could see tears in her eyes. She called me after I checked in and was concerned something might happen on the flight or my drive home. She told me how much she loved me and it was so nice to see the tender heart of my W. I would have preferred to have her come with me as it was a 20+ hour drive home. We had a special needs sick pet at home and the pet couldn't be left alone for a day. We sure did enjoy the sports car over the summer. If someone would have told me I would be separated from my wife in less than a year while processing a divorce I would have said there is no way in hell that would happen. What a difference a year makes.

Her friends met my W this week and delivered her stuff. My W actually went to coffee with them for about an hour. It's possible they told her she wouldn't get her personal stuff unless she did meet with them. From speaking with her friends it seems my W is pretty frail. My W did try to bring me into the conversation a lot during their meeting but her friends stopped it every time. They told her "we are not here to talk about your marriage. We are here to talk about your heart and the decisions you are making." She has some pretty awesome friend that care and love her a lot.

Anyway there's not much else to report. I had a great IC session on Wednesday the 29th.

What a difference a year can make.
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