thanks again all...I am half way through the DB book. Sadly, my wife should read this as well.
I know that with all my pressing it really is pushing her away more and I have to learn to sit back..take care of me and be there for the family.
As of right now she says she is here for the kids and has cut off all contact with the OM (has only been a week) so it is really fresh.
she truely does mean the world to me and I hope with all hope that given time, she will come to realized that our Family is worth fighting for. I really want her to be happy and I think with all the changes I have been going through, she can be happy in our family again and not with this OM.
