Jaded? Not at all. i just don't pump sunshine and roses. False hope is worse than a brutal truth.
My clarity and guidance is helping them stand on their own two feet. That's all.
I don't believe any member here tries to pump sunshine and roses or give false hope. Most try to help redirect the focus away from the M/R, to improving the person here, in order to have the best chance of saving their M/R.
We'll just have to agree to disagree on the approach to a newcomer in a fragile state.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
