Did you read his first post? By your response, it doesn't seem like you did.
His W has said she is staying in the M/R for the kids. As far as I am concerned, that is his bridge to get him across.
You may not realize this, but you project how you feel about the betrayal of the cheating spouse. I read jaded somewhere, which I come away with the same thought. It is a process to fully forgive and it doesn't all have to happen at once.
All I am asking, is to remember where you were when you received your BD and how you respond to newcomers. Everyone doesn't need "brutal" when they arrive. They need help with clarity and guidance.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
