I don't mean to hi jack but 25MLC brings up control and that's a hot button issue for many of us - me too.

If Ripe wants to stick to the agreement as laid out how is that controlling?

I agree that if anyone wants flexibility with the other side they have to offer it. If they don't want it why is that controlling? I would ask the question that if someone is too available for the other side to live their new life - are we not being doormats?


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017