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She had deleted the contact


You realize that means nothing, right? Mine did the same thing.

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but there seem to be residual emails in her inbox on some group emails on multiple devises. I spent time going through and deleting the rest as best as I could


So let me get this straight, you are deleting her emails from her accounts? That's very controlling even if she said OK. Wow.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.