I'm sorry that things turned out the way they did, but you can see he's stuck and the complaints about you are the same over and over again. He's still not willing to look at himself in the mirror and work on himself. Why should you change your entire self to please him. He married you and you most certainly didn't change that much since you said "I do". If he's that unhappy w/you for being the person you are, then he needs to file for a divorce and walk away. You can't live this way indefinitely, or at least that's what he's thinking in the back of his mind (that two of you should continue on as you have been). BTW, I still think he's in MLC from the way he's still stuck in the "blame the spouse".

I think another time to chat is needed, but you need to be prepared for the fact that he's going to avoid the subject of what to do about the marriage and go right back into stating what he doesn't like about you. I hate to say this, but you may, one day, have to be the one to pull the plug on your situation. I don't see him doing it any time soon.

Please try to enjoy your weekend. I know you are frustrated w/the entire situation.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.