Welcome to the land of DB. This is the best place to be given your sitch.
I can relate completely to dedicating yourself to providing for your family, while losing site of your M.
This is what you will repeatedly hear on the forums. It all begins with YOU and improving yourself.
You mentioned that work consumed a lot of your time and energy. We can probably agree that it isn't worth it.
What other areas can you identify within yourself that need improvement? You will need to lead your W and family through this challenge in your lives.
By what I gather, your W doesn't want to work on your M/R right now? If that is the case, that is okay. Investing in self growth will be steps in the right direction.
You are extremely early on in your sitch, so you will be processing quite a few emotions. You mentioned that you forgave your W, and I wonder if that comes from the fear of losing her. You don't have to be too focused on that now, but be cognizant that this might surface when things get intense with your W.
Any complaints your W had about you as her H? How are you as a father?
Just a few thoughts and questions to start off with.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
