I'm glad to hear you are doing better emotionally. It always tend to help the self esteem to have an ego boost. Everyone needs it from time to time.
Feel free to stay as long as you need support. And, I'm sure you know there is a section of divorced LBS's who support each other. I think it is fairly active, but please stay where you feel comfortable.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!