Irish -

Caught up with your sitch before bed last night but didn't reply because I felt my response was harsh. I wanted to see what others said. I read what bttrfly and job said and I agree.

Her email is all over the place. It's pleading but also dismissive and with conditions. There's no heavy lifting on her part. It's an olive branch without leaves. No contact is the continued way to go.

At least the girls with see their grandfather. Great stroke of fortune that her sister reached out to you.


M: 49, W: 45
T: 22 M: 15
S14, S11, S9
BD: Jan '16
W files: Oct '16
D final: June '18