Just wanted to post a quick update for you guys. Things have been going well, she has actually wanted to spend time with me for the past few weeks and has admitted during therapy that she feels the attraction that brought us together in the first place. Our main issue was we didn't make time for each other, when we were spending time together, we were happy. We both know that in order for things to work in the future, we cannot let ourselves slip back into the old habits and not make time for each other.
She gave my ring back last night, and we are talking about withdrawing the divorce proceedings so we don't have any unneeded stress on our relationship with time limits or restrictions.
I'm cautiously optimistic about our future right now, I don't want to set myself up for future hurt, but on the same level, I need to have trust in her actions that she is willing to commit to our future now.
