Wife left two days before our anniversary! Part 2

[jbroken]

JBroken - That [censored], and I know the feeling all too well. What I learned was that happiness wasnt going to fall into my lap. If I was sad for a month and moped around and did nothing, I wasnt going to magically be happy after that. It was up to ME to take control of my own life and my own happiness. Nobody else was going to do it for me.

I will promise to you that if you put in the effort to GAL, you can rebuild a life for yourself. The less you focus on your sitch, the better you will be able to maintain your PMA. And the best way to take your focus of off your sitch is to put it into something else....like your GAL.

So, what are your plans?

At the moment, I am just trying to keep my chin-up after the repeated blows. Frankly speaking buddy, I'm just trying to function in my day to day routine.

It's approaching three weeks of GD - well, I keep up my activity on FB as normal - sending out positive vibes and happy thoughts into the big wide world. So she is perhaps watching but, who knows? And I don't think I should stop doing things I usually do. Nevertheless, I don't really know if the GD stratagem is working in my particular sitch. No way to tell either. Is there?

My copy of DR is dispatched and should arrive today. So I hoping to get to that tonight after work.