Thanks for the input forgump. I had actually read that thread a few times already. It does seem to have some parallels to my situation. I found out that my insurance will pay for a psychologist. I am going to look for an appropriate one today. It will be for me though. The W will not go.
W initiated R talk with me again last night. She actually took some responsibility for our situation. She has almost never taken responsibility for anything the entire time we have been together so this was huge IMO. She also admitted that she was very sad and she said that it was ok for me to be sad too. This was big as well because she had never liked seeing me display too much emotion and she has always hated seeing any sadness/weakness in me. She seemed drained for the rest of the evening after that so I let her be. Every day is an adventure, I can't wait to see where it takes us next. Hoping for the best.
