Hi Pax, that is very strange to send you junk mail. Maybe he didn't feel he had the right to dispose of it because it is addressed to you? I must admit if I got any for H I would just throw it away!
Addressing the envelop in your maiden named is weird and sounds a bit passive agresive seeing as you aren't divorced as yet.
Sounds like you are in a really good place now. This morning I squeezed my damp eyes shut and prayed to God to help me to accept my sitch and to give me the strength to get through it. Reading your post I know there is hope for that.
Have a good day Pax!
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')