how are the GAL going now? I realize you have said you are working out and that's great. But I'm asking you what you are Doing for GAL and how detachment is going - b/c that's all we can ask you - as it is all you control.
It's not a criticism to ask. BTW, I don't think letters to your w (about anything) are going to help you.
It's more pursuit and it's more arguing with her about why she should take you back,
without you Doing what she needed you to do (and which you also want to do. NOT just b/c she wanted you to do it and now you feel that it's a good tactic)
But things you want to work on for your own happiness.
One question just occurred to me. If your w really needed you to do things that you don't want to do, things that are outside your comfort zone OR to give up something that you don't want to give up
what then?
Do you see value in getting out of your comfort zone or is it something you'd only like to do if it's "required"?
In other words, do you see value in these things, independent of winning her back?
IS a part of you resisting joining/volunteering/traveling, etc, b/c you don't have a guarantee of outcome,
or b/c you just don't want to? I'm sincerely asking. You don't have to answer here. I hope you will give this some thought.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
