Welp, no one is really responding to me so I'm just carrying on as I think I should.
Things aren't great. I've tried to remain positive but he's not really talking to me (and I'm not doing anything that looks like pursuit) so I can't keep things in a good place.
My furniture is getting moved out tomorrow. I'll be going this weekend.
He's been quieter lately. I wonder if reality is hitting him.
The financial situation certainly has. He's said "no one is telling you to leave" but the passive aggressive ways he's been acting in the past month or two are telling me exactly that. And he's saying that connected with a "but you pay the bills" sort of thing. He doesn't want me. He wants me to make his exit as comfortable as possible for him. He can't move out for a few months so he'd prefer that I stay and we keep up our financial arrangement, one that existed because we were in a committed relationship.
I let him know that we bought the house together as a committed couple. He's ending that unilaterally, so I can end the financial agreement we had. I told him I'd been really unhappy living there while we weren't together, and I need to leave for my own sake. And I can't afford to pay for two places at once.
I realize my situation is different because we weren't married, but we do own property together and we were planning on getting married. But then a switch flipped and he ended everything and wanted to sell the house.
His big mid century birthday is this weekend. I will say "happy birthday" but that's all I'm doing. I am also probably leaving for my new place that day.
