I haven't even been following this thread much and there was a reference to it on a thread I do read. Came here and started reading and was blown away!
Quote: i have a friend on this board that i am very fond of (she knows who she is) who played every role that there was. the pity parties, the wallowing, the venting, the anger, the wanting to leave, the wanting to not be around, the leaving the bb, and then one day (which was an inspiration to me and continues to be) she GET'S IT - it all clicks
I found nothing in the post from KK offensive in any way!
Here is my 2 cents,LOL, sorry you know I'm going to give it, but with love I hope!
We come here to get support, whether we like it or not. I sure don't expect everyone to post there, and hope everyone doesn't expect me to post on their thread. I read them and if I can't help them or if what they post makes me want to pull my hair out and run: then I don't post. I am here to help to boost PMA's. And when someone is down I want to lead a shoulder, because I know the "pain" and feel it in their posts.
Sure, I've been psyco, depressed, loose it, vent, wallow and have had wonderful baby steps. This is about each of our journeys, even though sometimes we go in different directions.
I do have to agree with KK; things can change in the eleventh hour, and there is proof that even after being D for 3 yrs, couples remarry. "Giving false hope"?, what does that mean? As long as that person sees hope, there is hope, if one of us sees hope, why not tell them? If you don't see any hope say so or say nothing.
There is always hope! Some of us our pessimists! LOL There are a lot of them! Optimists are hard to find and should be embraced! I try to be a optimist, even if I do "crash and burn"! If we were all optimists wouldn't life be great!? I have been an optimist since June. I was told I was an optimist by someone on the BB. But lately I turned into an pessimist; I hate being one.
So I'm working on going back to what I need to be. Maybe some here think I'm nuts, LOL! I have run the whole gamet of pity-parties, venting, wanting to leave, ect. But, I'm still here. I'm here, because I love my friends here, love the support here! And maybe I can help a few here.
Even if things don't look so great for my M right now doesn't mean I've totally given up on my R with my S.
NO, I'm not mad, just worried about some of the posts here on this thread! I just want KK to know, I love her, and she has been a wonderful friend to me! I stand behind her 100%!
No 2 x 4 from me, just loving concern for how people are thinking!
what does that mean? As long as that person sees hope, there is hope, if one of us sees hope, why not tell them? If you don't see any hope say so or say nothing.
