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[LW2381]

Last night we got into a R talk, her choice. I told her that I was tired of limbo and that we were either all in or all out for this marriage. The conversation ended with us going to bed together amicably but with no commitment from her as to knowing what she wants. This morning we woke up and she was friendly, I got our son up and got him ready, as I was leaving I kissed her goodbye and said ILY (this routine has not changed). I guess she felt like something was wrong, and asked me "are you okay?" I calmly replied as I walked out "I'm fine." A while later she called me and told me that no matter how hard she tries nothing she does is good enough for me. She said she woke up feeling like it was a new day and felt like it was going to be good. However, she felt like I shot that down and made her feel like no matter how hard she tries I can't just move on or move forward. Any thoughts on how I could've handled that differently? It seems like we can't get along about anything. If one of us is good the other is not. Makes no sense.