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[LW2381]

I feel like I need to update my current sich. We are both in MBR, no separation currently. There is no sex, as neither of us are back at that point yet. She seems like she is simply depressed most of the time. We don't speak hardly at all during the day, we still kiss hello and goodbye and say ILY. She just constantly reiterates she doesn't know what she wants (to be married, or start over), and tells me "I wouldn't be here if I didn't want to be." However, I see no effort nor action on her part to show remorse for the A, and if it is brought up, I am told "you're going to hold this over my head forever." I know this is where detaching comes in, but I also want her to know that I am committed to her, our family, and this marriage. Thoughts?