Yet the paradox is that by letting go of the results and solely focusing on what is in "our sandbox", i.e. OUR OWN issues and flaws that WE want to work on,
we become who we were meant to become and yes, that makes us more attractive to our spouses.
Sometimes we become the people we were meant to become and that is what they wanted, all along.
25 - This is beautiful stuff here. It's hard work keeping the focus on me and not think of we. It's a challenge every day that can be made easier with time especially when you are dedicated to improving yourself, GAL, etc. Thanks for this.
James - Hang in there and I wish you the best.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
