Not really any updates been with the kids for the past 2 nights. Not really spoken with the w apart from children stuff. Didntalkto hwr today via instance meaaagjng about the children and setting up a shared calendar. This then proceeding in discussing what to do about the house. She then proceeded in telling me that she may not live where she said she was going to live and tried to get my back up. Saying that I couldn't stop her moving to where ever with the kids. I was calm and said she could afford to still live in the area. To be honest I have no idea what is going on in her head it seems that all she is concerned about is herself. Spoke to me solicitor straight afterwards and he said that I have a say in it especially is she moves schools. But to be honest my w can't leave her job as she is paid very well for the hours she works so I think it was just to get a reaction out of me, as so far every time I have seen her j have been pleasant and kind to her and probably knocked her off guard.
The daughter opened up to me this morning asking when I would stop being away from the house and then started crying saying I want you to be here all the time. Funny that she doesn't do this to the wife or if she does I don't hear about it. At my brothers this evening and have my independent mediation meeting tomorrow afternoon. My solicitor said that in order for us to do mediation she needs to have clear plans on what she is intending on doing. So hopefully the mediator will point this out to her tomorrow as she also has her initial meeting tomorrow. Was kind of hard doing the forms earlier when j had to tick a box saying is this marriage over yes no or not sure. Haven't ticked anything yet.
Really don't know what my w is playing at I really don't.
Me:43 W:34 T10 M7 D-5 S-1 Dec16- w says we need mc Jan 17- w doesn't commit to mc Feb 17 - ea discovered Dec 16 D-day Feb 17- one night hook up March 17 w wants out but won't file
