WAW and the Big D

[Bdog37]

I needed to know all the details at first. Thought that the only way we would be able to work on the M and move forward was to know she wasn't lying to me anymore. However, now since neither of us want to reconcile I think I should have spared myself from learning all the details. Didn't do me any good, but have a bunch of sleepless nights.

Now you see why my view of cheaters is what it is. Lowest form there is. What I can't get is why people want them back after such. Maybe our own selfish reasons need to be examined...

For real brother! Not sure how anyone can do that to someone they loved?? Think we want them back cause we want our old M back before the A. However, that type of betrayal is very difficult to deal with and get over. There are couples who move past it and go on to have very healthy relationships, but it takes a lot of work and I personally wouldn't want to be M to someone who can do that to their S.