Part of me wants to go for full custody because of all this, but the other part of me doesn't want to take them away from her. My family thinks I need to. I should have seen the writing on the wall during our M. My ex was someone who would go out every weekend while I stayed at home with the kids. It became a joke, in some ways, with family and friends when they would ask me what I was doing on the weekend. Many thought I should have put my foot down then, but you can't force someone to be a parent. They either want to or don't. She told me that one of the biggest reasons for wanting a D was that I didn't spend enough time with her and the kids. Looking back now, I know this is bs because anyone who knows me personally would say that I was the one spending the most time with our children. I believe the real reason of her wanting a D is possibly a MLC or just the fact that she got a taste of her freedom and loves it more then the life of a mother/wife.
Either way the kids will have me there for them and I appreciate your words of encouragement.
M: 37 W: 36 T: 16 M: 11 D2: 8,3 PA: 2015 WAW: 2016 W Filed: 2017 2/07/2017 W officially dating OM2
